Dear Right Advice,
-BlahBlahBlah- 10 yr old that is pottying in her pants. -BlahBlahBlah- example she went to the potty a few minutes before she went to her room, then came back out of her room and said i pooped in my pants. -BlahBlahBlah- I asked her why and she said I just did not want to get back up and go to the bathroom. i dont know what else to do -BlahBlahBlah- we tried taking things away -BlahBlahBlah- grounding her for a day -BlahBlahBlah- nothing seems to work. Its not nothing medical cause we took her to the doctor. -BlahBlahBlah- I dont know if she is just being lazy or what but its getting bad and dont know what else to do. -BlahBlahBlah- my 4 yr old is starting to pee in his pants and he has been trained since he was 2 yrs old. -BlahBlahBlah- She stays dry all day at school and at night. -BlahBlahBlah-
Sincerely,
-BlahBlahBlah-
______________________________________________________________
It's hard to tell what's really going on when you approach this with the "something is wrong with HER," approach. The only thing you've successfully conveyed is that while your child is regressing, you're assing it in front of the computer with your back to the kids.
Seriously, you could've drilled google for some articles written by doctors, but instead you're online, casting for attention.
Hilariously apropos is that your Münchausen by proxy has been passed down to your kids in the form of Münchausen shit-yourself and Piss-yourself.
Shitting yourself is most often the aftermath of anal retention. Using your ass to express autonomy is pretty fucking primitive so if you're able to rule out sexual abuse and domestic violence, then lets just boil this down to a resistance of independence, probably because those whom she depends upon appear to her as not very dependable.
My advice to you: Take her to the kitchen, read her the back of a Tollhouse package, and braid her hair while you wait for the oven.
No comments:
Post a Comment