Parents Hate My Baby-Daddy

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Dear Right Advice,

-BlahBlahBlah- my parents hate my baby dad,, i am turning 18 in a few days and am a little over a month away from giving birth. -BlahBlahBlah- my baby dad is getting out of jail in 3 days -BlahBlahBlah- trying to do everything he can to make himself a better person by finding a job and getting his G.E.D..
-BlahBlahBlah- my parents are saying if i have any contact with him at all, they will kick me out and take my car away -BlahBlahBlah- this is the worst thing that could happen because i have no where to go -BlahBlahBlah- i cant really sneak around and see him because my parents are physco -BlahBlahBlah-
my baby dad lives in a trailer with his best friend and there is no room for another person -BlahBlahBlah- my baby dad is adopted so the most important thing to him is to be there for his child, -BlahBlahBlah- i love him more then -BlahBlahBlah-

Sincerely,
-BlahBlahBlah-
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It is sort of unfair that before your folks let you get knocked up by a jail-bound dropout they forgot to mention that they're gonna get all parenty once you have the kid.

Look idiot, you're already making out like a bandit. You get to have a baby, a car and your parents will support you financially. Why would you want to fuck that up?

You might think that getting pregnant and taking abor/doption off the table means that you're grown up, but all it really means is that you're an irresponsible child who's been making shit decisions and bouncing back on your parents' dime.

Sadly, your kid won't have that option, once you tell your parents to fuck off.

Also, your boyfriend couldn't even handle high school. What makes you think he won't drop out of being a parent? Not being able to provide for your child, because your criminal record keeps you from getting a decent job, is pretty fucking embarrassing. How long do you think he's going to do that to himself?


My advice to you: Give your boyfriend a year to get his G.E.D. and find steady work. Your parents will probably be cool with that because they know that in three months he won't have made any progress and hopefully you'll side with the baby's best interest.